Monday, March 19, 2007 @11:53 AM
you know when theres a friendship issue its get highly complicated.
one of my resolution is to be more vocal, as in expresss how i feel but i realised that is the most difficult thing to do. Maybe to others its as simple as that but for some reason or another words of feelings are never easy for me.
Hurtful words coming from the mouth of others may not be intentioned but then again the only reason why it hurts so much is because its not said on purpose.
Friends are easy to find but they dont stay for long. Ironically, its those "true" friends that upset you. Maybe humans being are just selfish and dont understand that one is already enough. Maybe its just the way that each of us are destined to have only one single bestfriend and soulmate that truly understands you and stay with you for life, but because we are simply too greedy, we wanted more and so eventually we end up with a group of "bestfriends". Bestfriend is originally used to describe one single person that is closest to you, understand and know you like a book. So when theres more than one involved in the use of 'bestfriend' it tumbled and fell.
When it gets crowded in the friendship, when you feel that you are suffocating and even left out and drifted apart all we need is a helping hand to pull us back to the warmth and laughter that we once shared. When it all feels different, a smile of reassurance can give you a sense of importance. I guess it all boils down to the fact that we need to feel appreciated and needed.
on a lighter note to end, thanks to the retards and their never ending jokes and games. you people never fails to do wonders and of cos not forgetting jacy who's miles away.
Long awaited date with julia and ky tmr :)
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