Wednesday, February 25, 2009 @11:15 PM
If you really think about it, it's all just a vicious cycle that we chose to be in. Afterall, the way i see it, it's just another life example to show the contraction and irony in life. We craved for love, hope for it to happen, imagined the wonders it could bring and when it came, we cheered and embraced it and not long after, we are all suffering from the very same thing that we hoped for.
I once read from somewhere that love is recognising ourselves in someone else and delighting in that recognition. It probably make sense. would we be able to love someone else if we couldn't even stand the differences that we had? How would it be possible to find love in the other party whom you can't appreciate?
I don't think we can ever say whether two person are right for each other. When their opinions diverge, love suddenly isn't enough. What once been endearing were flat-out irritating and what had been irritating now was beyong bearing.
All this emotions by proxy meant i hardly knew what i felt anymore. What did i have to feel about anyway? I experience the emotion but didn't get the closure, didn't get the end result when others got their problems sorted. I ran the race but never finished and got my medal. I was constantly jumping from one race to another running every race just as hard, but never finishing it.
I think it is a matter of love, the more you love a memory, the stronger and stranger it is-vladimir Nabokov