Wednesday, January 16, 2008 @10:25 PM
I just realised that my last entry falls on the 14th of January.
14th Jan is really a bad day
Just two years back i was very affected by this date that will send my emotions on a roller coaster ride. I remembered how i wished and wished that 14th Jan will never come but of course eventually it did.
Now,two years later i am still upset but for a different reason. 14th Jan is like a curse and all unhappiness will take place on this day.
Anyway, today's topic is on teenagers' relationship.
When we were young, just few years back i am sure all of us had questioned about our parent's decision of strictly no BGR till you are older. Now as young adults( dont deny, all of us are growing older) i guess we finally realised the reasons behind and that our parents did what they feel was the right thing to do.
This afternoon on my way back from school, i saw two couples on the bus. Naturally, the two couples started their competition against each other, showing off their public affections. One look at them and you know they are damn young, probably between the age of 12 and 13. The worst thing was that they didn't even have the common sense to change out of their uniform and hence the whole world know which school they are from.
Sometimes i really question these people and their ability to put their common sense in good use despite the good education they receive. Common sense tells us that if you want to keep the relationship a secret, you obviously have to act discreetly. For goodness sake, if you holding hands in school and announcing your "secret" relationship to the whole world, then you dont expect not to be found out right??
As for me, at the age of 20 turning 21 (yes i know i am old, dont remind me), i still find BGR issues very complex. Maybe it's just me being dumb but some of these issues(especially current one which i am facing) prove to be potential danger to serious brain damage. So, i wonder how being at 12 or 13 , these people can actually prove to be well capable or handling relationship when at the end of the day they are just going to hurt everyone around them.
Maybe they think they are old enough to make important decisions for themself but apparently they prove themself wrong. Just look at how many cases of young girls being cheated (worse still, some were not cheated) and have to go through abortion. Again, just look at how many cases of young people commiting suicide. What these figures show are obvious-parents do have the reason to worry.
Rules are afterall still rules. (and no, they are not meant to be broken)
I read from somewhere that says
"rules are actually really there to protect you, to make you safe"why do you think our parents lay down all the different rules for us- curfew,no staying out late etc if they dont care or bother?
Maybe they will understand when they are older like us.
Okay, it's high time i return to commercial law.
I love commercial law.
I love commercial law.
Can you see the irony? I am trying real hard to brain-wash myself.
I LOVE COMMERCIAL LAW!