Saturday, November 10, 2007 @5:03 PM
I am bored and that explain the update.
I was talking to one of my fellow friend from SIM and i was randomly complaining that staying at home for the last three days had bored me and i wished i had something to keep me busy and guess what? He suggested i go look for a companion -_- and yes, he meant it in a joking way cause sam will not in her lifetime look for a companion/fling just to kill her boredom.
But anyway, we started this topic on the difference between a fling and a companion and we came to a conclusion that there is not much difference.
They both means :
1) seeking the company of the opposite sex without any involvement of commitment.
2) someone whom you can call when you feel like it and ignore if you dont need them anymore
3) doing lovey dovey couple acts with someone and conveniently delete them away from your memory when you reach home
4) a alternative to your bf/gf when you need a change and some excitement
5) someone to be there when the others are not available.
Their only difference : companion sounds nicer than fling
But then again, seeking a companion is only the short term plan for we know the relationship last shortly until someone better, hotter, sexier, prettier comes around and the whole cycle repeats itself.
And this is supposed to be the norm among people our age.
The norm: look for a pretty companion and settle down with the good one so that you wont have your poor heart broken. At the end of the day, the most important thing is that you return safely and dont lose your way home. You can go all out to have your fun with all the pretty people and as long as you are able to keep it as a secret its fine.And so when i argued that thats because guys are superficial and surface-looking creatures, the counter argument was that the world is full of sluts that needs to be punished -_-
slut : a pretty girl with her hot figure that goes around seeking the attention of other guys regardless whether she's attached or single.conclusion: sam is just too pure living in her own little perfect world holding on to her unrealistic dream that someday somehow her prince charming will find his way and we will live happily ever after.
Of cause i know its not like that!
but do you have to come and destroy my perfect dream and tell me the hard truth? The world is getting more and more disappointing. *shakes head
Oh well,probably i am just too bored.