I believe that everyone do something for a reason. So be it what reasons, if you have the guts to do it, you should jolly well know the consequences and dont ever come back regretting. Since what done cannot be undone, the least you can do is to take ownership of the damage done and bear the full responsibility.
" Its not easy for a guy to go out there, find a girl that he likes and return to the girlfriend later asking for forgiveness and for her to take him back, take the trash back"
There is a limit to one patience and tolerance level. She may be silly enough to take you back once, tolerate your nonsence when you come back crying and begging. Afterall, we know just how soft-hearted women are, we tend to forget and forgive, foolish enough to believe that we should give our guy a chance to redeem themself, silly enough to believe that we can change men, stupid enough to believe that he will not do it again and dumb enough to believe that he will return to love her more.
She can take you back once and maybe twice. But thrice? It's either you think you are too charming for your own good or you seriously think she's silly enough to take your shit third time in a row. No amount of goodness and memories will be good enough a reason for her to take you back and tolerate your shit for the THIRD time.
"If he can do it once, he can do it twice"
All of us know this at the back of our hand. But when the reality come crashing down, not many of us will stand cool and still to think logically.
I wont say for sure how i will react if the same situation is thrown straight at my face because i had not been there. maybe i will allow myself to collaspe and might eventually swallow my pride take him back, maybe i will throw the whole trash on him and send him packing. No-one really know their reaction till it really happens.
Like what a friend says " No problem too big or too small to be fixed, no ass too big or too small to be kicked"
But because we heard stories of how disappointing men can be, it should never be the reason to stop us from loving and putting in 100% into the relationship. Afterall the essence of a relationship is love, trust and faith.
Love, trust, faith- they are not equipped with radar devices, sonar devices or lifetime guarantees. They are blind as bat but they are all we have.